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Okay, to repeat the question: When is the best time to make “the move”?
Well, because I can’t tell you everything you want to know here, first I have to recommand some books. The best
three for this:
- How to Date Young Woman (Click for Review)
- How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed (Click here for a review Click here for to find out how to get this book for free)
- How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You (Click here for a reveiw)
Okay, now that I’ve said that, here’s the advice from me. First off, thinking about “the right time to make your move” is the wrong way to think
about this stuff. You need to be making all kinds of moves from the moment you meet the woman until the time you stop seeing her.
In general however, the right time to get physical with a woman is this: whenever she wants you too. The real trick is getting her to want it, and to tell when she
wants it. You will rarely meet a woman who, five minutes after meeting you, is ready to get naked (I know it happens, but not very often).
Getting her to want it, and telling when she is ready, is called seduction. It starts fromt the very first second you meet her. It is a progression. I am not going to repeat myself, so click here to read about the steps that take you there. The whole idea is that the woman is going to give you non-verbal
signals. You are going to respond to these signals as they come. When a woman is standing so that she is looking straight at you, with no arms
crossed, and with a friendly look on her face, that is the time to get closer. Then touch her someplace innocent: the shoulder or arm. Leave your hand
there for just a little bit longer than you would if you didn’t want to get into her pants. Then: hands off! Try to tell from her reaction (don’t ask; almost
never ask) if she liked you touching her. If you got no horrible reaction, next time go a little further; hold her hand, put you hand on her leg; whatever.
Then, of course, you want to get a long a little bit, right? Well, by now, she is either giving you signals of “come on” or “get lost”. Respond accordingly.
At some point you will be standing closely, or holding hands, or whatever. She is giving you all the great signals. Turn to her so that she is facing you.
Pause a second; smile maybe; now kiss her. She will either kiss back or not. If she does kiss back, do it again. If she doesn’t, just stop. If she says that
you are going too fast, say “Okay, I’ll take it easy.” Or something. DO NOT SAY YOU ARE SORRY.
Okay, here is the key. When ever a woman has made it apparent that you have gone TOO FAR -- STOP!!! RIGHT AWAY!!! However, if you were
holding her hand, and she liked that, but you kissed her, and she didn’t, don’t stop ALL THE WAY. Just go back to holding her hand. Follow this
principle: Just back up one step when she says “NO”. Eveytime she says “no”, back up another step. So, if you are getting your kicks by sucking on
each others tongues, and you fondle her breasts, and she says “stop”; just stop touching her breasts -- don’t stop kissing. 95% of the time when a
woman is being physical with you, and she says “no”, she just means “no” for now. The idea is to not give up the terriorty you already have permission to
get into. After a while, try the move again; if she says “no” again, back off WITHOUT COMPLAINING. It might take you a couple or three or four dates to get
what you want -- but persevere -- always get right back to the level you were at on the last date, and then progress. Oh, one other thing, if after a few dates you are making NO
PROGRESS -- move on to a different woman. She is not interested in you for sex. She just wants “companionship” or someone to buy here stuff.
Remember this: Woman LOVE to “make out”. Kissing, hugging, etc. (with the right man of course). Do enough of this (even hours) and she will give
you what you want eventually -- because she will be too TURNED ON to not have sex. You should learn to like this too.
So, I guess the key is a little bit of patience. You don’t have to bag the babe on the first date, or even the second. If she is spending lots of time making
out with you, she likes you. If you always back off when she says “no”, she will learn to trust you.
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